EMDR Trauma Therapy In Cheyenne, WY
Mary is a certified EMDR therapist with 25+ years helping Cheyenne residents heal from trauma. EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It helps your brain process traumatic memories that got stuck. Trauma changes how you think and feel. You might have flashbacks, nightmares, or constant anxiety. EMDR helps your brain finish processing the trauma. This reduces the emotional intensity. The memories don't control you anymore.
What EMDR Does
Traumatic experiences can overwhelm your brain. The memories get stuck in raw form. You remember the event with all the original fear and pain. These stuck memories trigger you in the present.
EMDR helps your brain complete the processing. You recall the memory briefly while following Mary's hand movements with your eyes. This bilateral stimulation activates both brain sides. Your brain reprocesses the memory into a less triggering form.
The Eight Phases
EMDR follows a structured process:
**Phase 1:** Mary learns your trauma history and picks memories to target.
**Phase 2:** You learn coping skills for managing distress.
**Phase 3:** You identify the specific memory and negative beliefs about it.
**Phases 4-7:** You reprocess the memory using bilateral stimulation.
**Phase 8:** You review progress and make sure the memory no longer causes distress.
This takes multiple sessions. You won't recount the trauma in detail. EMDR works without extensive verbal description.
What It Feels Like
You focus on a traumatic memory while watching Mary's hand move. Thoughts and feelings arise and change. Your brain is actively processing.
Some sessions feel intense. Others feel calmer. Between sessions, you might notice dreams or memories surfacing. This means your brain continues processing.
Unlike exposure therapy, you don't relive the full trauma. EMDR allows reprocessing without re-traumatization.
What EMDR Treats
Mary uses EMDR for many trauma-related conditions:
PTSD
EMDR works exceptionally well for PTSD. Research shows 77-90% of single-trauma PTSD clients no longer meet diagnostic criteria after 3-6 sessions.
Cheyenne's military community at F.E. Warren Air Force Base benefits from EMDR. Veterans prefer it because you don't need to describe combat experiences in detail. This matters for classified operations.
Complex Trauma
Complex trauma comes from repeated experiences. Childhood abuse. Domestic violence. Ongoing harmful situations. This affects self-esteem, relationships, and your sense of safety.
EMDR for complex trauma takes longer. Mary helps you work through multiple memories systematically. You build coping skills while processing traumatic experiences.
Childhood Trauma
Childhood trauma shapes your brain during development. Physical, sexual, or emotional abuse affects your relationships and self-worth throughout life.
EMDR helps adults heal from childhood trauma. You reprocess painful memories and update negative beliefs formed during those experiences. Many Cheyenne clients see dramatic improvements in current relationships.
Traumatic Loss
Sudden or violent loss—suicide, accident, homicide—creates complicated grief. You experience intrusive images. You can't access positive memories without being overwhelmed.
EMDR processes the traumatic elements. This allows healthier grieving. You can remember your loved one without the traumatic charge.
Anxiety and Phobias
Many anxiety disorders and phobias stem from frightening experiences. EMDR addresses both the original event and current symptoms.
Social anxiety, specific phobias (flying, dogs, medical procedures), panic attacks—EMDR often provides faster relief than traditional anxiety treatments.
Accident Trauma
Car accidents, workplace injuries, medical trauma—these create lasting psychological impact after physical injuries heal. You avoid driving. You experience flashbacks. You develop chronic hypervigilance.
EMDR reprocesses accident trauma efficiently. Often just a few sessions for single-incident events. Wyoming's rural highways cause many accidents. Mary helps Cheyenne clients heal from this specific trauma type.
Military and Veterans
F.E. Warren Air Force Base brings thousands of military personnel to Cheyenne. Combat trauma. Military sexual trauma. Training accidents. The stress adds up.
The VA strongly recommends EMDR for PTSD. Military members prefer it because:
• No detailed verbal description needed • Works faster than traditional talk therapy • Addresses physiological aspects, not just thoughts • Can be done without discussing classified operations • Many see improvement in just a few sessions
Treatment is confidential. It won't impact your military career or security clearance.
What to Expect
EMDR differs from traditional therapy.
Length of Treatment
Single-incident trauma (one car accident, one assault): 3-6 sessions typically. Complex trauma from repeated experiences: 12-24+ sessions depending on severity.
Each session lasts 60-90 minutes. Mary creates a treatment plan for your needs. You're not locked into long-term therapy.
Between Sessions
Your brain continues processing after sessions. You might notice:
• Dreams or memories surfacing • Emotional shifts • New insights about the traumatic event • Physical sensations as your body releases stored trauma
These are normal. Mary teaches coping strategies for between-session experiences.
Combining with Other Treatments
EMDR works with medication and other therapies. If you're taking meds for PTSD, depression, or anxiety, you can continue during EMDR. Many people reduce or eliminate medication after EMDR. Discuss any changes with your prescriber.
Is EMDR Right for You?
EMDR works best for:
• Identified traumatic memories or events • PTSD or trauma-related symptoms • Anxiety or phobias linked to specific experiences • Desire for relatively brief treatment • Willingness to experience temporary emotional distress during processing
EMDR may not be first choice if you're in active crisis or have severe dissociative symptoms. Mary will assess your situation and recommend the best approach.
Many Cheyenne clients tried traditional talk therapy without progress. EMDR offered the breakthrough they needed.
Serving Cheyenne, Wyoming
Mary's been a certified EMDR therapist in Cheyenne for 25+ years. She's helped hundreds of local residents, including many military veterans from F.E. Warren Air Force Base. Her office at 721 E Lincolnway provides a safe space for trauma processing. Online EMDR also available for Wyoming residents outside Cheyenne.
Treatment Types
- Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
- Complex Trauma (C-PTSD)
- Childhood Trauma and Abuse Recovery
- Grief and Loss Complicated by Trauma
- Anxiety, Panic Attacks, and Phobias Linked to Trauma
- Depression Stemming from Past Events
- Accident or Injury Trauma
Frequently Asked Questions
How is EMDR different from talk therapy?
Talk therapy focuses on discussing problems and changing thought patterns through conversation. EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (eye movements) to help your brain reprocess traumatic memories neurologically. You don't talk extensively about the trauma. Many people see faster results with EMDR—often 3-6 sessions for single-incident trauma versus months or years of talk therapy.
Does EMDR really work for PTSD?
Yes. Studies show 77-90% of single-trauma PTSD patients no longer meet diagnostic criteria after 3-6 EMDR sessions. The American Psychological Association, Department of Veterans Affairs, and World Health Organization all recognize EMDR as effective for trauma and PTSD.
Is EMDR covered by insurance in Wyoming?
Most plans cover EMDR when treating diagnosed conditions like PTSD, anxiety, or depression. We work with Blue Cross Blue Shield, Cigna, and United Healthcare. We can help you verify your benefits before starting.
Will I have to describe my trauma in detail?
No. Unlike some trauma therapies, EMDR works without detailed verbal recounting. You'll briefly identify what you're targeting, but you don't need to relive or narrate the trauma extensively. This helps people who find it difficult or triggering to talk about experiences, including military veterans with classified combat trauma.
How long does EMDR therapy take?
Single-incident trauma: 3-6 sessions typically. Complex trauma from repeated experiences: 12-24+ sessions. Each session lasts 60-90 minutes. Mary creates a plan tailored to your needs.
Can EMDR help anxiety and depression?
Yes. While originally developed for PTSD, EMDR helps anxiety disorders, depression, phobias, and panic attacks—especially when these have roots in traumatic experiences. EMDR reprocesses underlying events driving symptoms.
Is EMDR safe?
Yes, when conducted by a trained therapist. You might experience temporary emotional distress during processing as traumatic memories surface. This is part of healing. Mary teaches coping skills first and monitors your response throughout. EMDR includes safety protocols, and you control the process—you can stop anytime if overwhelmed.
Can I do EMDR online?
Yes. EMDR works via secure telehealth for Wyoming residents. Online EMDR uses digital bilateral stimulation (moving objects on screen, alternating sounds) instead of in-person eye movements. Research shows online EMDR is as effective as in-person treatment.